A friend’s Facebook status….
”.…is so tired of her educated people(w/e race you are) using profanity to their dear loved ones or associates, friends, or w/e. The most unattractive thing about a person can be the language out of their mouth. So to all her friends and loved ones, if you gotta call her out a name, don’t bother to open your mouth to her. You aren’t or never were her friend.Treat yourself right and you’ll attract the right stuff. Peace.”
Bitch is it that serious?! -giggles- Just joking.
But do you agree?
Or do you live with the fact that, ‘that’ is something you were accustomed to since childhood?
Does this take away from your intelligence or are some people in fact a little too sensitive?
Oh, and she’s referring to us as people calling each other Bitch Hoe Nigga case you didn’t know.
Who You Calling A Bitch?
The most common name to degrade women. It’s foul. But what can we do if people, especially men were raised and surrounded by people using these words and whoever receives them accepts them? Back when we were kids, you did some trouble with this and was probably cursed out. Today? These teenaged girls laugh when their male classmates call them this. I hear many men say it’s crazy that women are okay with their female friends calling them Bitch but have a problem when they call them one. No shit sherlock. Your boy can call you a ‘nigga’ but “Ted Patrowski” can’t. I personally distant myself from these words except for - you guessed it, Nigga. Kill me. Blame the rap music. Whatever. Now I get an occasional, “What’s up beyotch” from a female friend, but let’s not get so serious. And I don’t take it serious.
Nigger, or Nigga to all you different folk…
I remember my mother telling me how “back in the day” black people actually stopped saying ‘Nigga’; What happened? A rapper maybe? And please don’t tell me how Tupac made his own acronym. And don’t you hate when rappers say, “oh see, we dropped the ‘er’ at the end and made it ours…”. Black folk don’t correctly pronounce their ‘er’s anyway. Wrong is wrong and unfortunately we use it. Stop making excuses. And people who say/type Ninja in replace sound/look stupid as all fuck.
Remember my censored post? Sh!t is still shit. Why say Ninja then? Just type ‘my homie’ ‘my boy’ ‘this dude’ or something. Trust, its not homo. Thanks.
“Don’t trust a hoe, don’t trust a hoe…cause a hoe won’t trust me….”- 3oh!3
Goes in the same category as bitch but see, ain’t too many females too keen on using that. You okay with being called a bitch but will snap if someone called you a hoe? - like Bitch is of great quality. You’re retarded. Both are foul.
Profuckingfanity.
People may use “curse words” to express emphasis, anger, and/or it just sounds better. Personally, it’s okay until it becomes a turn-off for me when you use it every 2 words. It’s kinda like Milk, I can have a decent amount but not too much. :)
Which one sounds more threatening:
“I’ma kick your fat butt girl!!!” or “I’ma kick your fat ass bitch!” You be the judge.
Hopefully, my friend isn’t talking about profanity period because unless you are an employer, haha, I’m not going to completely stop neither are her other friends. When I first read her status, I disagreed with the ‘you’re not a friend and never were part’. Mind you, this same person randomly says ‘muthafucka’ like it’s one of your nicknames. My comment on the status went between the lines of ‘if I curse or say those things, it has nothing to do with me being educated. I know when to cut it off’.
It also had me thinking, if you don’t like that then fine, if I value my friendship then I won’t say that or act a certain way to or around YOU, however I’m not going to change a minor thing for a friendship that’s really not causing you any harm and if it is, why wait until the 4th or so year of friendship? If that’s the case, profanity should be the least of the flaws we want to change in our friends.
Men, and women, will never stop calling you out of your name; hell, people do it just because you are not what they want you to be. Black people will probably never stop calling each other Nigga. Unfortunately. Let’s recognize real (ignorance perhaps) and not sugar coat. We won’t stop cursing. How can you change something like that when your mother’s been cursing around you for the longest? Not saying you have to do what your parents do but it’s kind of like for your kid’s whole life you put them in public school and when the fucker’s 17, you want him to spend his last year at a private school, thinking he’ll get better schooling. Yeah, right.
p.s. Nigga, Hoe, Bitch, Coon, Cracker. People will call you what they see fit, a lot of times it doesn’t fit and they just choose to call you that. But if everyone is always calling you a bitch, hoe or a nigga, whether they are a friend or not, which you have to make a statement about it, obviously your attitude/aura doesn’t demand respect. People will know right off what they’re dealing to not even go there, and if they want to, they’ll just think that of you and what someone thinks should be the last of your worries.
September 15, 2009, 6:06pm
