Kelis & Nas in the Niggerest happier times

In recent news, singer Kelis took rapper Nas’ ass to the cleaners because this NIGGER didn’t want to play nice.

In the last week this has been the topic of blogs and of course opinions are flying like crows. What I don’t get is after all high-profile divorces and settlements (Michael Jordan anyone?) people still act like they never knew the courts favored women. Or that you are entitled to a percentage of what a man makes for child support.

You getting $85 per month from $9.50 every hour ass Rodney does not apply to this percentage.

People make me sick jumping to assumptions without getting proper details hell, I do it too but so what…

When are we just going to be unbiased for a chance?

Kelis is such a horrible person now because this fool didn’t look himself in the mirror and see a man. He saw NIGGER and decided it would be best to be selfish and ignorant to his wife. THIS FOOL GAVE HER $350 and GIFT CARDS!!!! Was Kelis a horrible person when they both were happily married and showing off their NIGGER jackets? No, and you didn’t give a shit then.

Of course men will be upset at the 55k order. They’re men. It’s natural. We don’t know a what a man goes through or how a man feels in a case like this, however women even disagreed with the settlement.

Are you fucking serious? How do you know 55k is too much? Because YOU and [insert ghetto child name here] still live in [insert poverty strickened or low-class neighborhood here] where it doesn’t cost much to lease an apartment and it’s not expensive to go to Rainbow and buy your baby’s clothes? So your budget makes it “too much” for another woman to get what she needs, even if it’s more than your assets and expenses. Kiss my ass!

Now women get aid, medical care and food stamps, but let them not get child support, they raise all type of hell. Some of you are some wishy-washy unstable creatures. Let a woman get her just-due. Let’s see, you’re with a man who’s making a 6 figure income, you leave him and fight for child support, are you going to tell the judge,

“Please don’t, those thousands are just too much, just give me the regular default. $200!”

My thoughts exactly. BITCH PLEASE.

Then you have the women who put it down our throats that they take care of their children by themselves. Who gives a fuck? Not to be harsh, but women can’t keep using their unfortunate misfortune (like that, don’t you?) to get a higher step on the pedestal. Women have been taking care of their children by themselves for a loooooong time. Your new school ass didn’t start this. But see, our society believes that a single mother holds so much power and grace that it has been installed in your immature mind it’s great to be a single mother. You can tell those type of women though. Any woman who practically demands to be acknowledged on Father’s Day is that woman. Father’s Day is for Fathers, not for any voids a woman just so happens to fill.

Anywhoo, as I was reading Necole Bitchie’s blog about this Nas & Kelis fiasco, a few commenters among the opposition summed up my opinion best about this as possible. This is not about Nas & Kelis, it’s about man & woman.

From girl named “Sparkle”…

“Why are some of you women so proud of taking care of your kis w/out any help from the fathers? Put those men on child support(if you can find them). Your not a strong woman. Your a dummy whose not holding that man responsible. Get it together ladies. It seems like women don’t expect anything out of black men anymore, but then get upset at women who do expect better. Our community is all fucked up.”

Commenter Monichris

“Any woman who doesn’t insist a man pay child support is a fool and weak. I for one refuse to carry my responsibilities AND the fathers too.”

Commenter Peaches

“Just ignorant. Just because your daddy wasn’t isht and didn’t pay child support, you expect everybody other black woman to struggle. NOT. Good for Kelis. If Nas didn’t want to pay child support, he should have kept it zipped and been faithful to his wife. Now he has to pay and should STFU, quit whining like a sissy, write his checks, and be accountable for his trifling, irresponsible lifestyle.”

Commenter Intitled

“They are both idiots. And yes a woman should work and that’s what most woman do in the REAL world!!!!! but for some reason men think that once they’ve paid the court ordered child support that’s it financially.. Are you serious? In the average single parent house hold the child support given isn’t even enough, not to mention the other activities that cost MONEY which falls on the mother most of the time. Nas is a dick and Kelis is an ungrateful whore. This chick has so much talent and what is she doing with it? why does the court have to force a man to take of of his child? and why should a woman have to work hard and struggle while the man is living care free?? Fuckin pathetic…. “

I think all this anger men possess with child support issues comes from the man’s ego; he can’t have something, anything being taken away from him, whether it’s a woman, materialistics, etc. Sooooo, he becomes selfish, stubborn and helpless since he feels this way, in turn, if you’re an ex to this type of man he sure in hell doesn’t want to share his money with you.

July 30, 2009, 6:33pm